Crazy Female Antics

I cannot help but post about this. Recently a friend of mine has been having issues with his girlfriend. They have been together for a few years, "on and off" (aka: "she dumps me when she gets bored and wants new dick") and as of late she seems to ditch him to go to parties without him knowing, never picks up her phone and when she does he inevitably gets blamed for never calling, et cetera. SOUND FAMILIAR? Of course it does. They also haven't even had sex in a month.

Want more juicy details? He spent a few hundred bucks on her for Christmas, getting her various gifts. I forget what they were exactly, probably some clothes. Stuff girls like. What sort of relationship is this? This isn't one.

Cliff notes: she's using him. She does as she pleases, talks to him only enough to keep him around, and otherwise does absolutely whatever she feels like. Most likely cheating on him as well, it would not even begin to surprise me.



Buried within this, there is another variable at work. Women are similar to vampires, and I do not say this in reference to the golddigger, which is also a vampire in her own right and of another sort, but these girls are similar due to one insatiable thirst that they do have: the thirst for attention. Men have this too, in a sort of way. It materializes in other sorts of fashions. The one I refer to here is the woman's love for having a guy call her to talk or to hang out. In my friend's situation, she is more in love with the idea of him calling her begging to hang out than she does enjoy actually hanging out with him.

So this man is stuck with a wretch who is only interested in shallow stupid aspects, won't even sleep with him and refuses to show any care or concern. Pathetic. For both of them, and it is a true shame when the victim is unable to detect his crummy situation.

There is an easy way out! Delete her from your phone, remove her from facebook, myspace, whatever. There is no need for a break up, my friends. The relationship doesn't exist in the first place. If you think that attempting to reason with this sort of person will work, think again. You do little more than prostrate yourself in front of her, and provide for her the opportunity to say whatever makes you feel better in order to keep you around.

My friends, I said this once, and I will say this again. When you are being given the run-around, when you are in a situation where the other person is a flake and never seems to go through with anything, you simply must walk away. There is no better solution to the problem. 3 billion more fish in the sea, man.


ebooks like these help improve your skills with texting on your cell phone. worth the read.


Oh, and read what I've got so far on dating in general:
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